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					  <title><![CDATA[Rant about bad boys and Women]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/297/1/Rant-about-bad-boys-and-Women/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[Attention all intelligent men, there is a crisis at
hand - beautiful eligible women are being swept away by beasts
masquerading as real men. Women are often attracted to &#34;bad boys&#34;
because they are aggressively pursued by them. What
women want is to be wooed and wowed by men. Unfortunately, too many
women are falling prey to these &#34;thug loves&#34; - they usually end up
emotionally and sometimes even physically abused. These
so-called &#34;bad boys&#34; are winning women over simply because they are
assertive, confident, cocky, and competitive. In of itself these are
not all bad traits, but mixed with the definition of a bad boy:
selfish, dishonest, arrogant, abusive, irresponsible...]]></description>
					  <author>mail@venusianskills.com (Carlos Xuma)</author>
					  <pubDate>Thu, 13 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[The Power of Relaxed Confidence]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/295/1/The-Power-of-Relaxed-Confidence/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[&#34;There is no spoon.&#34; Oh yeah? Then why do you feel like you're GAGGING on a spoon every time you approach a woman? Simple, really; you haven't yet TRAINED your BRAIN. Back to that in a moment, first, you need to understand three factors of success with women. #1 Relaxed Confidence #2 Relaxed Confidence #3 Relaxed Confidence.Woman can smell relaxed confidence. I'm not talking about arrogance; that is something else entirely.No, I'm talking about smooth, playful, nothing phases you, relaxed confidence.   ]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Derek Vitalio)</author>
					  <pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Be Her Hero, not Her Wuss]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/277/1/Be-Her-Hero-not-Her-Wuss/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[You know you're pussy-whipped when you become falsely agreeable. When
a man lacks a backbone because he's afraid of displeasing his woman,
his woman eventually learns that she can take advantage of him. And
then she begins to resent him for being such a wuss. And then she loses
all respect for him. But you can take control of the relationship and make both you and your woman happier. What do I mean exactly by &#34;take control&#34;?]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Derek Vitalio)</author>
					  <pubDate>Fri, 24 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Don&#39;t Let Physical Flaws Stop You]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/260/1/Dont-Let-Physical-Flaws-Stop-You/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[You know what I love most about supermodels?&#160; They are INSANE. Seriously, what else would you call it when one of the world's most
beautiful women obsesses about some perceived physical flaw? That's right, it's so well known it's axiomatic, few people worry more
about their appearance than those who have the least to worry about. Of course, if your butt size was worth $3.5 million in endorsements, you'd worry too. ]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Derek Vitalio)</author>
					  <pubDate>Wed, 08 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Confidence Max]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/228/1/Confidence-Max/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[
          
          In Junior High, I knocked over a metal bar that guided the cafeteria
line. As the divider clanged and echoed throughout the large room, a
silence descended, waiting to see whether fight or flight was in order
with such a large noise.&#160; Neither was; once everyone
realized what had happened, laughter came. Looking back, I now know
that much of the laughter was just a release of momentary unwarranted
panic &#8211; not all of it was REALLY about me.&#160; But it
sure felt that way. Everyone &#8211; EVERYONE &#8211; was looking at me cackling.
Some were pointing. A few goofs were doing impressions in the back.  ]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Derek Vitalio)</author>
					  <pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Persistance]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/218/1/Persistance/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[
I got a letter recently that I thought was provoking and interesting. I think it's such a critical point that it needs to be reviewed and restated. Guys, there is NO magic bullet in dating and attracting women - other than this: If you are not successful with women right now, you need to LEARN MORE and PRACTICE MORE. And then leave no other option for yourself than success. Bottom line: You must PERSIST. No ifs, ands, or buts. I've seen some not-very-attractive guys with such great game that they were always lining up a new lady. They were balding, slightly chubby men - not good looking. But they knew that one thing was going to override any appearance factors: Their ATTITUDE.]]></description>
					  <author>mail@venusianskills.com (Carlos Xuma)</author>
					  <pubDate>Sun, 01 Apr 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Q &#38; A With Carlos Xuma - Self Esteem]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/217/1/Q--A-With-Carlos-Xuma---Self-Esteem/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[QUESTION: I was interested in finding a girlfriend when I turned 18 last year November. I have made a few mistakes where i was rejected and I did not know why. I did some research and read many books but am still unsuccessful. This is really messing up my self esteem. I am very good looking. Not that I'm bragging, but I am told this by many of my sister's friends who are 26 years of age and over. To get to the point, I feel that reading these articles makes me feel insecure as if I require help, like a crazy person seeing a psychiatrist. and as a result girls can sense it somehow. How many mistakes do I have to make (roughly) until I get a girl?]]></description>
					  <author>mail@venusianskills.com (Carlos Xuma)</author>
					  <pubDate>Fri, 30 Mar 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Self Esteem]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/45/1/Self-Esteem/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[Self Esteem Is Critical To A Healthy Sexual Relationship. After my nine year marriage ended in 1992, I was determined to find out 
what I had done wrong.  Why did my marriage fail?  I read every book 
about relationships that there was. I went to a counselor. I talked to 
hundreds of recently divorced women.  I dated a number of them.  Some of 
them I got along with wonderfully, some not so.  And then I dated a 
woman who I got along with incredibly well.  With her I had everything I 
didn't have in my marriage.  I had an intellectual connection.  I had a 
deep emotional connection.  And she was more than happy to do all sorts 
of wild kinky things with me.  It was great.

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					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (David Shade)</author>
					  <pubDate>Sat, 23 Dec 2006 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Extreme Self-Confidence]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/28/1/Extreme-Self-Confidence/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[Building disproportionately high self-esteem. One quality I see in myself and other successful PUAs is an
unshakable self-confidence. This is often disproportionately high
compared to what you might expect it to be, given the person's
background, looks, finances, intelligence, etc. Self-confidence is something you can work on. At the end of the
day it's just down to a set of beliefs - what the voices in your head
are saying, and sometimes how loud they say it.
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					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Magnus  )</author>
					  <pubDate>Fri, 24 Nov 2006 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Statement of Affirmation]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/26/1/Statement-of-Affirmation/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[Maniac High talks about the affirmations he reads aloud before Sarging! This is my current 'statement of affirmations' I read this aloud
(with passion) before PU and other times when I get the chance as a
reminder of who I am, what I do, and why I am successful. Street PU does not start when you hit the streets. That is a middle
step. Rather, PU starts before that, in the preparation phase.]]></description>
					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Maniac High)</author>
					  <pubDate>Mon, 23 Oct 2006 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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