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					  <title><![CDATA[Evolved Dating]]></title>
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					  <description><![CDATA[
There is a new type of dating that grows from inside the old, &#34;dating game&#34; mode - evolved dating. What is 'evolved dating'? It is dating for people who KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. In other words, people who are aware of the dynamics of men-women relationships, body language, effective communication, who have their life together and who understand that there is more to dating than pick-up lines. Those people DON'T need the usual dating games, playing hard-to-get etc, etc. Like high-level sportsmen, they can spot each other in an instant.  ]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Elena Solomon)</author>
					  <pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[How To Rapidly Build Social Value]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/464/1/How-To-Rapidly-Build-Social-Value/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[Before you get to the Bond and Connection
phase with a girl, you first need to build social value for yourself.
Without enough social value, she won't reciprocate the connection and
think you're just another &#34;nice guy&#34; trying to get into her pants. A great way to build that social value is through planned  stories and routines. Planned stories and routines free up your mind to focus on other things. Like a computer, your brain only has so many clock cycles spare. Imagine you're on your way to a bar or club and you're getting yourself into a good state for approaching women.]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Derek Vitalio)</author>
					  <pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[How to REALLY Win Friends and Influence People]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/259/1/How-to-REALLY-Win-Friends-and-Influence-People/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[There's a popular belief that you need to have a certain approach to
have any success. Like for instance, you have to be extroverted and
entertaining to get the ladies. It just ain't so - the ONLY thing that
matters is your relaxed CONFIDENCE and the way you PROJECT that
confidence, using your body. After that, it's just a matter of picking
your own style. Alright, what will fetch you more success - being introverted or extroverted? I
know you think YOU know what I want you to say. And maybe you're right.
After all, it's a lot easier for extroverts to meet people than
introverts, eh? There's no doubting it. And extroverts also tend to be
more personable, faster to charm, soakers of attention. while
introverts often are alone in a corner. ]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Derek Vitalio)</author>
					  <pubDate>Tue, 07 Aug 2007 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Social Vibing]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/67/1/Social-Vibing/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[To me, this is a very important post. Social Intelligence. Having struggled so hard to learn it, I have so
much to say on this topic. In this post I'd like to specifically
discuss social vibing and insecurity (a very focused, but important
peice of the puzzle). There are many subcommunications that are being telegraphed at all times in any interaction.  Both verbal and non-verbal. Social interactions have features and customs that I suppose  are designed to make them pleasant. As social animals, we have the attribute of actually enjoying socializing just for the sake of socializing. We socially VIBE.]]></description>
					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Tyler Durden)</author>
					  <pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2007 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Vibing Framework]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/68/1/Vibing-Framework/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[It seems there are a number of factors that will typically enable
an individual to carry on a seemingly endless, engaging, and effortless
conversation. However, when I look back on my experiences, both within mASF and pre,
the biggest area within which I think most can improve towards this
capability is vibing &#8211; ie. knowing which questions to ask, when to ask
them, and how to ground and share your own personality and experiences
in doing so &#8211; on any topic a conversation might lead to.]]></description>
					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Jon King)</author>
					  <pubDate>Wed, 21 Feb 2007 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[If you can&#39;t shag &#39;em, befriend &#39;em]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/193/1/If-you-cant-shag-em-befriend-em/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[In addition to making friends with 5 guys who are good at meeting
women, you want to make friends with at least 3 very attractive women.
Attractive, as in, attractive to YOU! One of the major concepts David D introduced, and this was something
I&#8217;ve been hearing from Swinggcat for the past year, was that in
addition to making friends with 5 guys who are good at meeting women,
you want to make friends with at least 3 very attractive women.
Attractive, as in, attractive to YOU! David D talked about how having
attractive female friends can help out a guy on so many levels, and he
went on to talk about how people make other people their friends (for
the TRUE losers out there who really have NOBODY in their life). ]]></description>
					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Unknown  )</author>
					  <pubDate>Sat, 10 Feb 2007 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[How to get a Social Life]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/62/1/How-to-get-a-Social-Life/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[Getting a social life isn't all that hard. The problem is that
most people make and keep friends without really thinking about how
they do it. They just picked up the skills automatically as they grew up. If
you've always been more of the shy, loner type than you'll probably
appreciate some pointers. Pretty much anyone can have a group of friends if they want to. Here
are some things you may want to get covered first though to make things
easier. ]]></description>
					  <author>admin@venusianskills.com (Chris  )</author>
					  <pubDate>Sun, 24 Dec 2006 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Robert Cialdini Class]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/43/1/Robert-Cialdini-Class/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[The first thing Cialdini talked about was the influence high status people have
on others. He mentioned an experiment where they had a guy speak to classes on the
existence of life in outer space.  In one set of classes, they told the
students the guy was the head professor of physics at Harvard University
(someone of high status).  And the other set of classes they told the class
this guy was a janitor at their school, and just studied outer space in his
free time (low status).

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					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Mimicker  )</author>
					  <pubDate>Sat, 25 Nov 2006 00:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
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					  <title><![CDATA[Complete Guide to Vibing]]></title>
					  <link>http://articles.venusianskills.com/articles/75/1/Complete-Guide-to-Vibing/Page1.html</link>
					  <description><![CDATA[A common problem for guys without a lot of social experience is
that they &#34;stall out&#34; when they are having conversations with girls.
This is caused mostly by a lack of experience with vibing, either by a
lack of social experience or by over-reliance on canned material. The most important thing to learn about vibing is that you
cannot have an interesting conversation on a single topic for any
period of time. The second most important thing is that outside of some
very high-energy club environments, you cannot just switch topics
randomly. You need to vibe smoothly from one topic to the next.]]></description>
					  <author>venusianskills@gmail.com (Spirit Fingers)</author>
					  <pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2006 00:00:00 +0200</pubDate>
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