(Q&A Session)

***QUESTION*** 

Mr. Dave!  

You are the man! I have been getting your emails for about 8  months now I believe and have read your book! Just yesterday  I was in the store looking at CD's and I noticed these two  beautiful girls walking around and they would constantly  look over towards me. As I wandered around the store more I  noticed that they seemed to always show up wherever I was.  So I stopped them and asked the girl that I was more  attracted to "Excuse me but i'm going to have to ask you to  stop stalking me." She looked at her friend like 'What is  this boy talking about' and then she asked me for my name. I  immediately answered "Do you really think i'm just going to  give my name out to a stalker?" once again she looked like  she couldn't believe I was talking to her this way. We  talked about five more minutes and then I told her I had to  go. She asked me if I wanted her number so we could continue  the conversation. I pretended to think about it and then  told her "I'm sorry but I'm just going to be way too busy to  find time to call you. So If you promise to stop stalking me  i'll give you my number and you can try and catch me when I  have a few minutes of free time to talk." She eagerly took  my number and when I got home about an hour later she had  already left a message on my machine to see if I could go  out with her this weekend!  
I was so happy because I was curious too see if I reversed  the three minute phone number to give away my number instead  of getting hers would work and it did! Anyway on to my  question. As I stated this girl was with a friend at the  store who was also very attractive and was there the whole  time I was hitting up her friend. Is there anyway in these  situations where you can get both girls numbers?  

AF- AK     

David D's Answer:  

Nice "reverse stalker" move.  

I say things like this to women all the time, and they generally love it.  

To answer your question, YES, there's an easy way to get both girls' phone numbers.  
ASK.  

Then call and ask them BOTH to come join you for a cup of tea.  

Kill two birds with one stone.  

Then, over tea you can decide which one you like more.  

I've had friends who have been in similar situations report back that sometimes both women will like you.. and EACH OTHER as well.  

I mean, what do you have to lose? 2 minutes of getting a phone number?  

Look, your question was based in fear.  

Fear that you'd offend one or both of the women, and then lose everything.  

The fact is that you never HAD anything.  

A phone number is easy to get. If you feel like asking both women for their numbers, do it. If you feel like asking them both to join you for tea, do it.  

You get to make the rules.