How to Attract Girls Even if You're Short
Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:
- Al Pacino
- Humphrey Bogart
- Napoleon
Okay, no surprise here.. they're all short guys. But you know what?
They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their
celebrity status.. they were all players before they became famous.)
In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.
There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots
right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height.
Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes. That
will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.
Long term, one way short guys can be more dominant physically is to
work out. In fact that really should be first and foremost. If you've
got muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical appearance,
but also with your confidence levels, strong inner attitude, and poise.
So get in the gym.
When you're muscular and you're a short guy, you become like a pit
bull. And by the way, I'd like you to experiment with that do not
always be the nice guy who's polite. For the next few months, try to
let your "inner bad ass" come out a bit when you're with girls.
Do the affirmation, "I'm becoming like the pit bull who can dominate the bigger dogs."
Once you start feeling more and more confident in a few weeks, change
your affirmation to, "I AM like the pit bull who can dominate bigger
dogs."
I've noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that inner bad ass.
Now, I'm not saying you should become a jerk.. but just try to balance out that inner nice guy.
Next thing to do long term is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking. Who
cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want and
being who you are. (That is so key by the way.. those guys I list above
were players exactly because they went through life doing what they
wanted and being true to who they were.)
You see, short guys who are bad asses really have a bit of an
advantage. Because of their stature, they automatically are able to
have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than
the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to that a bit of a "bad
boy" element, it makes chicks dripping wet with attraction.
The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your
height will it affect you with the girls. If you feel completely
comfortable with your height, then they will too.
By the way, when it comes to tall guys, what women find attractive
about them isn't their height. It's their dominance. If you have a
tight sense of inner confidence, and project a personality that sucks
them in, height will be the furthest thing from their minds.
So to sum up, be true to yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your
inner bad ass., and stop caring about anyone's approval. And hit the
gym ASAP. And do the fashion things I said.
Then you'll attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.