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The First & Most Basic Step To Becoming Successful With Women
By Simon Heong | Published  06/19/2007 | Basics | Rating:
Simon Heong
Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "28 SureFire Ways To Instant Dating Success!" Handbook -- The Net's FIRST ever compilation guide revealing the most intimate secrets on female attraction techniques and strategies.  
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The first step to becoming successful with women is this:

Learn to have basic conversational skills. 

You MUST be able to talk to anyone at anytime -- anywhere. 

As simple as it may sound, this should be the first step
you MUST simply master.

And WHY must you do this? 

Well, think about it -- if you're able to literally talk to 
anyone AS IS and WHEN you like, don't you think you'll 
subconsciously be improving your social conversational 
skills with people in general? 

The idea for you to do so is so that you become more 
COMFORTABLE talking to people. 

That's it. 

Forget whether it's with a guy or a girl for the moment. 

Just make 'talking to people' second nature for you. 

If you're shy with the girls, then a good place to start 
is with the guys - especially the guys who are already 
great with the ladies. 

Use them as practice. 

Seriously. 

Think about it, common sense tells you if you can't even
feel comfortable talking to guys, what makes you think 
you'll be better off with the girls? 

You can learn A LOT from these so-called 'players' as well. 

Remember, the fastest way for you to become great with women
is to MODEL after those who are ALREADY achieving the 
success that you want with women at the moment. 

You see, once you're comfortable talking with the guys, then
you can start moving forward and try talking to the girls 
instead. 

Remember: make GRADUAL improvements -- on a daily basis.

Think about it: If you can gradually improve your 
conversational skills by a mere 1% each day CONSISTENTLY,
by the very end of the month, your conversational skills 
would have improved by a whopping 30%!

NEVER underestimate the power of gradual improvement!

The next key step is for you to TAKE ACTION.

Can you imagine how much more fun your life would be if 
you'll be able to just walk up and talk to any girl that you 
like? 

With this skill in hand, you'll be able to mess around with
any girl you choose, anywhere you like!

It could be just be the sales girl from your local shopping
mall, to the waitress who serves you coffee, to even the 
girl sitting next to you in the bus stop!

Here's something you should also know when it comes to 
talking to women. 

Most guys tend to try TOO HARD when they're talking to a 
woman -- a beautiful one especially.

They'll tend to be way too accommodating, friendly & 
'complimentary' to the her which is exactly the OPPOSITE way
that most 'alpha males' should be doing. 

This is also EXACTLY the way that 90% of guys would be when 
they're talking to a woman which is wrong, wrong, WRONG!

What you SHOULD be doing in fact, is to NOT project that vibe
that you're trying TOO HARD to gain their attention. 

Remember: Be DIFFERENT. 

You see, most guys, especially the shy ones, they tend to be 
too afraid in trying something funny or something cool 
especially if its with a beautiful woman.

My question for you is this? 

What's the worst that could happen to you if you did? 

But before we go into that, let me tell you this, and this 
really is a FACT. More often than not, the worst things that 
you would normally think off, will most likely NOT happen at 
all!

It's just your mind playing silly 'ole tricks on you, that's 
it.

Now, worst case scenario is even if you DID fall flat on your 
face, at least you did something DIFFERENT, unlike the 99 
other losers that said the same lame, over-accommodating lines 
that she's so accustomed to all along. 

You see, if you really want to be great with women, you must 
be a super 'ALPHA' bloke -- a guy who's NOT afraid to speak 
his mind AND do the right thing in any given situation 
and be the leader of the pack.

Not be all wimpy and accommodating and stuff. 

Get it? 

Think about it -- then go out and DO it.

You'll SEE the difference right away.

And you can thank me later, ok? ;-)

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