A while ago, a guy wrote to me saying that if he knew what women wanted, he would write a book and retire rich.
What women want was a secret to a man for a long, LONG time.
Mel Gibson and his famous movie "What Women Want" haven't quite
answered this question. In fact, this is exactly the answer to the
question in his own words:
"After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the
surface of what women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere
between conversation and chocolate."
I don't know about you but this answer doesn't quite cut it for me. If
I were a guy, I would need something more specific to succeed with
women!
Fortunately for you, after reading this article, it will no longer be a
mystery. Because I am going to tell you EXACTLY what women want.
(I was thinking about writing a book and retiring rich. but decided to
give this secret away for free for the good of the humanity.)
OK, let's get to our nitty-gritty, shall we?
Generally, women want many things, including hot gossip and Italian
shoes, but as far as men-women relationships are concerned, this is the
one and the only women's request:
They want strong, powerful, overwhelming EMOTIONS.
They want to be swept off their feet.
If you manage to deliver THAT, all other women's desires and
requirements become irrelevant: money, looks, height, education,
status, or anything else men habitually put on the list of desired
attributes - NONE of this really matters.
YES! A woman can fall hopelessly in love with a man who isn't good
looking, doesn't have money, doesn't have education, who is short, bald
and old, as long as he manages to deliver these powerful EMOTIONS that
women are craving.
Why?
Because her requirements for money and status come from intellectual,
or CONSCIOUS part of the brain - and the emotion of love, or
attraction, comes from emotional, or SUBCONSCIOUS part of the brain.
In other words, she cannot help it.
She cannot decide NOT to be in love.
(Have you ever tried it yourself, to stop loving the person who you
know isn't good for you and who only brings you suffering and problems?
How successful were these attempts?)
She doesn't 'step into' love - she 'falls into' it.
It is absolutely imperative for you as a man to evoke strong emotions in a woman in order for her to fall in love with you.
And they don't have to be positive emotions only - vice versa, an
emotional roller coaster works the best. In other words, hate is NOT
the opposite of love - it's its associate and partner. Indifference is
the opposite of love. It is easier for you to make a woman that hates
you, to fall in love with you, than a woman who has no feelings
whatsoever towards you.
What most men do not realize is that a woman does not have to LIKE you,
in order to fall in LOVE with you. Yes, you've read it right: she may
NOT like you but still fall in love with you. Quite often, the reason
why she doesn't like you is the very reason why she falls in love with
you.
Confused?
You should be.
What I realized is that although we LIKE people that are 'like us', we
LOVE people that have something that we DON'T HAVE. We are powerfully
attracted to people that are DISTINCTIVELY DIFFERENT from us. The MORE
different they are, the STRONGER is our attraction to them.
Since they are different from us, which means they aren't 'like us',
chances are this difference is something that we don't actually like.
The powerful emotion of attraction that overrides all women's
requirements to a potential partner and makes her do the things she
would not tell her mother about, is only evoked in a female by a
DOMINANT MALE. In other words, the male she cannot control.
Women have in-built mechanism that reacts on the dominant male by
making them weak at their knees and feeling swept off their feet -
experiencing these all-powerful EMOTIONS they are after.
They respond to a predetermined
PATTERN of behavior by falling in love
with the person who exhibits this behavior. And this pattern can be
learned - this is what is commonly known as 'dating skills'.
Do you want to drive women crazy about you - to the extent they disregard your looks, finances and social status?
It is possible and attainable. And the best thing, you CAN do it.