Here's how you can get a girlfriend in 9 easy steps:

1) Turn off your computer and go out. Expand your social circle as much as you can - I guarantee you will meet MANY women on the way. Join a few hobby clubs, go to house parties… or even get a volunteering job somewhere. I don't care how you do it. JUST GO OUT AND MAKE AS MANY FRIENDS AS YOU CAN.

2) Flirt with every woman you meet - even if they are 60 year old's. Let go of all of your expectations and just flirt with women to give them pleasure, not to get anything in return. (As some of my Christian readers have told me, flirting is a way of “giving”, not a way of getting. Having this mindset will give you GREAT success with women.)

3) Tease women using the techniques you've learned from my column.

4) Act like a complete challenge.

5) When you come across a woman you would like to meet, get into a conversation with her and don't leave until you have asked for her phone number. It doesn't matter if you get it or not. Just do it for practice.

6) Once you have the number, go out on a first date and have fun. Focus on building the sexual chemistry. Remember to end the date early.

7) Ask her out again a couple of days later. Keep going out with her. Take it “one date at a time.” Just focus on building the chemistry and do not talk about getting together AT ALL.

8) As you continue to date her, remember to keep on advancing physically. Hold her hand, kiss her, stroke her hair, and cuddle with her. It doesn't matter if you kiss her on the first date or on the fifth date as long as you ARE advancing forward.

9) Have 7-10 dates with her. If the energy is good, at the end of the 10th date give her a kiss on the lips and ask her to become your girlfriend. (This does NOT have to be your first kiss, of course!)