***QUESTION*** 

I have a question. There's this girl that I really like, and she tells me that she just wants to be friends, and I was just wondering, what can I do to make her change her mind?

>>>David D's Answer:  

This is a great question, and I get it a lot. I think of this as a much different question than the above, as it's usually something that can be fixed. Here's how: If most of the women that you meet are telling you that they want to be "just friends", then it means that YOU'RE DOING SOMETHING TO MAKE THEM ALL FEEL THAT WAY. The good news is that if you're doing something to make them feel that way, then you can start doing something different to make them feel ATTRACTED to you instead.

You're probably not going to be able to do much for the ones that are already telling you that they want to just "be friends", but here's what to do in the future:

STOP ACTING LIKE A "FRIEND" WHEN YOU FIRST MEET THEM!

If you act like a "nice, friendly guy" then a woman is NOT going to feel attracted to you. What do I mean by "nice" and "friendly"?

I mean don't give her too many compliments, don't act shy and don't smother her with attention. Don't call her every five minutes. Don't talk with a tentative, weak voice. Don't go far out of your way to be accommodating too early. Don't tell her that you have feelings for her before you've gotten intimate with her. DO tease her.

DO act Cocky & Funny around her. DO end phone conversations and meetings first. DO act a little bit too confident. DO use The Kiss Test early on in the relationship. DO speak with strength and confidence.

Are you with me?

If you're getting a common response from most of the women you meet, then the common denominator is YOU and the way you're acting. So keep working on it until you get the results you want.