Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an
attractive woman and thought to himself, "Wow!
She really works those breasts, bouncy
bouncy."
Next, he went up to talk to her and
within the first thirty seconds of
conversation the poor bastard went belly up as
she hammered him to jelly. He, then, walked
away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an
existential funk ten times the size of his
deflated ego.
You can probably relate. I know I can. I've
been there about a billion times. Heck! - I
used to be so scared to approach an attractive
woman that I'd imagine her steamrolling me,
leaving me for road kill in her wake. How cool
is that - I'd disqualify myself without even
talking to her.
Meeting and approaching women is no easy
business for those who haven't mastered the
necessary skills. Let's take a look at why
this is so.
Realize this: We approach women in the wake of
their cuteness - and they know it. Without
them uttering a single word, they hook us in.
Half the time, even if you find them less
attractive than the stench of foot and *ass*
combined, they'll still genuinely believe
you're hitting on them.
This, of course, is about to change. So keep
reading.
Watching most men approach an attractive woman
is as depressing as a costume ball for
demented children. The woman is like a pro
fisherman with top notch bait and the guy is
like a poor little fish, soon to be chopped
up, fried, and eaten for dinner. Even if he's
a fighter, it's too late - he's already on the
hook (Albeit, if he happens to be her physical
type, he's got a shot at success).
I'm also a fish - but an F-ed up, twisted,
über alien barracuda. Just when they feel that
they have me on their hook I start throwing
bait at them. They start chomping away at the
bait and, then, bam - they're on my hook and
I'm reeling them in.
Let me give you an example. If I'm at a
nightclub, I might stand in a crowed area -
maybe near the bar or ladies restroom. As a
woman walks by I'll stick out my elbow making
it inevitable that she'll bump into it. And
then in an overdramatic and offended tone I'll
utter: "Ow...you hurt me." Ninety-seven percent
of the time, women will stick their hand out to
touch me and apologize with some variant of,
"Oh my...I'm so sorry." I'll usually shoot back
with, "You can touch me but...only if you tell
me an interesting story or a funny joke."
Not only is this a bundle of fun but also a
powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
Once most guys find a woman attractive -
usually within the first few seconds of
meeting her - they start thinking of ways to
get her approval, win her over, and prove
themselves to her. Put simply, she has them
emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just
about anything they do to impress her, is a
sign she is reeling them in even closer.
With my example above, however, I'm doing the
opposite. Instead of me proving myself to
her, I'm making her prove herself to me. I'm
the sought after Prize, not her.
A caveat: In many contexts it is useful to
praise and acknowledge qualities about a woman
you find worthy. This only works, however, if
you communicate to her that your worth is - at
the very least - slightly higher than hers.
In every male/female interaction only one
person can be the Prize at a given time. Two
people can't simultaneously chase each other.
There are exceptions but, generally speaking,
you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she
is trying to win over.
The advantage of having looks, money,
fame...or whatever is that sometimes you have
a built in hook with women. In and of it self,
though, this is not enough to hook most
women.
That's why the only foolproof road to success
with women is having the knowledge to
emotionally hook them regardless of having
these things.
I don't care if you have the best pickup
lines in the world or the funniest stories or
the coolest car or massive biceps...or
whatever. If you can't emotionally hook a
woman in the first few minutes of meeting
her, your chances of success are very slim.
Having, however, the skills and
understandings to emotionally hook women,
compelling them to want and reach and chase
for more of you, will give you so much power
and choice with women that the possibilities
are endless. I've taken the time and effort
to put together a book on attracting women.
And a big part of this book is dedicated to
emotionally hooking women, making them
compelled to want and reach and chase for
more of you. You won't find the lion's share
of this information in other books. Much of
it I discovered through heaps of testing
and experimenting with real women in the
real world.
Realize that knowing how to emotionally
hook women will transform everything
from meeting and approaching them, to
interacting with them, to generating
massive attraction in them, to getting
physical and sleeping with them.
Just think how your current success
with women will change if you take
this opportunity to crack open my
brain and get an insiders look into
how I think by downloading my book
today.
Swinggcat