Walking down the street, you usually feast your eyes on the hot
ladies going by and say to yourself: "I'd do her!" Has it ever come to
your mind that men are not alone with this? Yes, my friend, women do
the same!
During your everyday life,
whether you are on the underground, walking in the local shopping
center or dancing in your favorite club, girls will notice and measure
you the same way. They might not say, "I'd do him", but they can be
open to meeting you and going further.
Most
guys live their everyday life and never notice when a woman is eyeing
them. But what if you approached her? Just think how many of these
opportunities to meet a wonderful girl have you lost in the past!
Countless to say at least.
Here are a
few examples. A girl coming in front of you who looks deep into your
eyes and smiles is giving you a sign of interest. When you are on the
bus and a certain girl maintains her proximity to you (even if you sit
or stand somewhere else) is showing a sign of interest. Maybe you can
notice with your peripheral sight that a girl is looking at you from
time to time. Or the girl sitting next to you fixes her hair, puts on
some make-up or does something to get your attention.
Most
of these women are waiting for you to make your move! Even though it's
sometimes unconscious for them as well, if you got the signs right she
will be SURE to respond to you positively.
If
you've got the courage to meet some wonderful girls this way, I will
share my secret. This is a secret some authors are selling for hell a
lot of $$$s, and if I give it to you, you will have to make a promise.
You MUST promise to try it AT LEAST ONCE, otherwise close this window
and go to Disney.com RIGHT NOW! Deal?
OK.
So you chose to stay with me. Don't forget your word! The following
approach requires balls, but it also works like charm. In certain
situations when you are pressed by time and you see a women giving you
signs of interest (like those mentioned above), go up to her with a big
smile on your face and say:
"Hi. You
look like somebody I should get to know, but I'm in a hurry right now.
Still, I don't want to pass such a wonderful opportunity to meet
someone like you. I'd like to see you again at a place where we could
talk and get to know each other."
It is
very important to SMILE and come off casually and non-threatening. Like
when you bump into a friend you haven't seen for a long time. If you
interpreted her body language well, and she really gave you an
invitation to approach her, she will agree to meet again. So after she
recovers from the initial (positive) shock, simply ask for her number,
then smile and carry on with whatever you were doing.
One
more thing: recognizing these signs is not easy if you have never done
it before. So don't be afraid to practice and don't be scared if you
get rejected at times. After all the girl you approach doesn't even
know YOU, she can only reject a stranger, not your real self. You see,
it's very important not to take anything personally.