Today we're going to talk about the danger of flirting with a woman through email before you have a strong rapport with her.

Many guys have asked me how they can attract a woman they have just met by sending them emails with “hypnotic words”. They want to know things such as how they can “describe the sensations” of all the naughty things they would like to do to these women so that the women will fall in love with them by just reading their emails.

Guess what? It doesn't work that way. You *cannot* expect to attract a woman just be writing sheets and sheets of “romantic language” to her.

In fact, you will probably scare her away.

The trouble with flirting over email is that there're NO “romantic calibration” at all. There is NO way to judge her by her body language if she's interested in what you're saying at all. As a result, you could be going down the wrong path without knowing.

In real life, you can see her reactions adjust your flirting accordingly. But in an email, there's no way for you to get any kind of feedback. You could start going in the wrong direction at ANY time, and keep on going on in the wrong direction after.

For example, you could talk all about how much you would enjoy rock-climbing or going star-gazing with her - when the woman is not even interested in these things.

Or you could think you're teasing her and joking around with her, when she thinks you're actually insulting her.

Because without body language and voice language, a lot of your flirting and teasing may become “lame”. The women may take your teasing “literally” because you're not there to express yourself.

So what's the solution?

Well…it's pretty simple…

BE A MAN and don't try to attract women by writing emails.

Pick up the phone and call the woman. This way you can use your voice tone to show your playfulness and also get feedback in real time.

Or better yet, ATTRACT HER IN REAL LIFE.

If you absolutely must flirt with a woman over email, then make sure you keep your emails SHORT. For example, when I email a woman the first time, I usually say nothing except “Knock knock, who is there?”

Try this, and if a woman responds positively, then you can send a few more short messages and finally ask if she has Instant Messenger.

This way, you can interact with her in real time!