If you haven't taken the plunge into online dating, let me
SET you straight about a few things.
1) Online dating is the most amazing gift to men since woman herself. (Well, some women.)
Think about it for a moment. For one small monthly fee, you can scope
out women, learn what they like, what they don't like, check out their
picture and actually begin swapping emails, IMs and talking with them.
You can do it in your underwear. You don't have to get dressed up; to
gas up your car; to spend hours of your prime time; to buy drinks for
people you don't' know; to fail in public.
Online dating is an amazingly easy and effective method of meeting women.
2) There are MILLIONS of women ACTIVELY LOOKING for you online. They
are not coy "bar chicks" or girls with boyfriends. They are what we
call in marketing, HOT LEADS. Smoking hot! Because they are coming out
to meet you half-way. You just have to learn how to craft your profile
so that you are the bait they are seeking.
There are two basic reasons women are on line. Some are there to look
for a guy to marry. Some are looking for a guy to just hook up with. So
no matter what reason you're looking for women, there are women looking
for you, too.
3) Women online range from not-so-hot to super-hot. I have personally
hooked up with some of the most beautiful women of my life from online.
And any cursory tour through one of the better sites will show you -
this is not a side option for single guys - it's a MUST DO!
So the attractiveness of women online pretty much mirrors the
attractiveness of women anywhere, right? Well, that's to be expected.
But when you are at a bar or club trying to meet women, you only have a
few dozen to choose from at most. And everyone is going to be hounding
the hot ones.
Online, you've got those MILLIONS to choose from. What's even better is
that you can search for them by location, income, religion. . . all
this stuff you can get out of the way before you even say Hi.
4) Online dating is THE place to practice your game. Whether you still
remember awkward Junior High School dances like it was yesterday, or
you effortlessly meet and hookup with women all the time, Online is the
place to practice without personal rejection.
There are lots of great techniques for meeting and seducing women.
Whatever "way" you are, or whatever "technique" you choose, you'll have
more time to practice it online. Whatever you do, learn from your
mistakes as well as your successes. Not everything is going to work
every time, and you shouldn't expect it to.
One other great advantage to online dating is that you don't have to
fear rejection. These women you approach don't know you. Your friends
aren't there to watch you
CRASH AND BURN. So, you can take risks that
you wouldn't normally take if you were talking to a woman in person.
And that means you'll succeed more than in person, too.
Maybe.
The single greatest reason NOT to go online to meet women is being
closed minded. You are going to be exposed to lots more women online
than you've ever seen before. If you are closed minded when you write
or talk with them, you're sure to fail. If you are not willing to get
out of your rut and try something different, to learn something new,
then you are sure to fail. If you don't learn how to listen and read
women's profiles properly, to truly understand what they mean in their
profiles or emails to you, you are sure to fail.
So, don't be closed minded. Online dating is the single best method for
meeting women today if you approach it properly. Done wrong, it can
lead to the same results you've always had. Done right, done with the
same care, marketing savvy and preparation that you probably approach
your professional pursuits, and you can stand out from the other guys
and have success beyond your wildest dreams.
