Women get their social-sexual value largely from their physical looks. Dressing your woman up in high heels, a short skirt, a push-up bra, and having her hair and nails done when she goes to the mall with you, walks down the street, or you go on a night out together, increases her social-sexual value. Making your woman hit the gym and hiring a fitness trainer for her will also increase her social value as her legs firm up and her stomach gets tight.

In fact, you can often take a girl with a social-sexual value of say, 7, and with some hair highlights, makeup, an attractive dress, high heels, colored contacts, and the like, transform her into an 8 or even a 9.

Of course, most men take absolutely no action to increase their partner's social-sexual value.

Most men don't encourage their woman to wear makeup, most men don't go shopping with their woman for sexy clothes or shoes, most men don't suggest to their woman to get their her hair or nails done, and most men have little interest in having their woman go to the gym.

These men typically seek women of high social-sexual value through fantasy, adult films, strip clubs, or eyeing other women.

At the same time, they're insecure about having their own partner be a woman of high social-sexual value.

In other words, if their own woman was peacocked, wearing heels, a sexy dress, makeup, her hair done, colored contacts - they would start to feel jealous or uncomfortable.

And if this resulted in other men taking active interest in his woman - attempting to flirt or show sexual interest toward her - or even eyeing her as she walks by - they'd feel even more jealous, uncomfortable, or insecure.

These same men fantasize about sexual fantasy women who dress sexy and are outwardly sexual - but of course, his own woman isn't like that - she's a sweet "Madonna".

And if his woman's social-sexual value rises, well then that's a threat, because if she's attractive to other men, he might have some competition or might not feel worthy of a high value woman.

Most guys however aren't even conscious of their insecurity. We've all seen when men who don't let their wives dress up. But most guys hold their woman's social-sexual value back in a more passive way.

For instance, the man allows his woman to eat anything she wants and doesn't make her do any sort of exercise.

Or, he simply doesn't take her out so that she has no reason to ever display herself sexually.

Or he tells her that buying clothes or makeup is a waste of money.

Many guys will even lower their own social-sexual value to lower their woman's. They start dressing down themselves, don't take the time to groom themselves, or get fat. And in an attempt to match the social-sexual value of her man, the woman follows his habits.

In fact a lot of relationships follow this progression - during courtship, the woman dresses sexy and stays fit and in physical shape. As the relationship progresses however, the man passively allows her to get out of shape, doesn't take her out to social events, and doesn't encourage her to wear sexy clothes.

And pretty soon, the man loses interest in his woman sexually. At the same time, when the woman doesn't look sexy on the exterior, she doesn't feel sexy on the interior. She no longer feels like a sexual woman. Rather, she starts to feel like an old woman. She wants passionate, rip-the-sheets sex, but she feels undesirable and inhibited. A woman dressed down and eating bon-bons isn't going to be enthusiastic to striptease for her man or act out wild sexual fantasies.

On the other hand, a woman enthusiastically encouraged by her man to show off her sexuality outwardly to the world will be enthusiastically eager to reveal her inward sexuality to him.

A woman who looks sexy on the outside is going to feel sexy on the inside and is going to want to BE sexy in the bedroom and be highly suggestible to your commands while she's in a Blissnotic state.

That means having your woman wear high-heels when she goes out, encouraging her to wear makeup, encouraging her to get her hair and nails done, getting her a belly ring, and going to specialty stores and finding sexy clothes for her.

This also means working with your woman on a proper nutritional program and exercise, having her do cardio in the morning before she eats and a basic weight training program. Even if your woman doesn't exercise now, she'll feel enthusiastic about it if you yourself take active interest in her health and appearance.

In addition, taking salsa classes or swing dancing classes with your woman and going out once a week in public to dance where she can display her body, her clothes, her style, and her moves, will make her feel attractive and drive her to follow through on the new changes.

But the philosophy I really encourage is one of MUTUAL social-sexual value escalation.

In other words, recruit your woman to help YOU with your clothes, your grooming, your body language, your posture, and your physical fitness. A man well dressed and well groomed has a higher social-sexual value than a guy wearing a stained t-shirt and flip-flops.

A man who stands straight and tall with a flat stomach and has some muscle on his arms is going to have a higher social-sexual value than a guy who doesn't take care of himself. And if you ask your woman to actively help YOU, she'll be more receptive to the suggestions that you give her. Ideally, you want to be working mutually TOGETHER with your woman and encouraging each other, yet recognizing that you won't always be equal in social value, but sticking with each other through the journey.

And when your woman is peacocked outside the bedroom, you'll be able to easily PEACOCK her INSIDE the bedroom, with sexy lingerie, stilettos, and sex toys and lead her through all the juicy fantasies you can think of.