There's no question that having the right body language can project
a sense of self-confidence when you're talking to women. Today I am
going to teach you a few tricks on how to use “confident body language”
to help you attract women.
1) Broad smile
Have
a broad smile on your face. As a beginner, try to aim for what I call a
“baby smile”. Smile openly and sincerely like a baby. Later on, you'll
be able to tone it down to a more serious “James Bond” kind of smile.
But for now, stick to the baby smile. It will help get you the kind of
attention you need!
2) Relax your face muscles
Make
sure that your whole face is relaxed. (Even your smile should be
relaxed.) If you show any kind of tension on your face, women are going
to know you're nervous. Practice relaxing your facial muscles in the
mirror. Smile and tighten your cheeks, hold for a few seconds, and then
release.
Do this 10 times every day.
3) Strong eye contact
Make
sure you keep strong eye contact with the person you're talking to.
Looking at the ground convey shyness and submissiveness - which is what
you do NOT want. It helps to try to look “past” the woman's eyes and
gaze into her soul.
4) Don't break eye contact upon meeting
When
you first meet a woman, don't break eye contact until she does. This
will demonstrate your masculinity and your status as an alpha male.
5) Keep palms open.
Keep
your palms open or only slightly closed when you're with a woman. Do
not clinch them into fists. Don't stick them into your pockets or hold
onto your shirt or jacket.
6) Stand with feet wider apart.
Stand with your feet wider apart than you usually do. Open up, take up more room, and be “grounded”.
7) Lift up your chest
Expose
your chest like a soldier. It is a sign of the alpha male. The alpha
male proudly shows off his chest as a symbol of dominance. The beta
male tries to cover it up because
opening up makes him feel vulnerable.
8) Slow down your breathing
Slow down your breathing. Breath EASY! Breath from your rib cages, not from your chest.
9) Shoulders up
Keep
your shoulders up without tightening them. Don't hunch. Hunching is
often perceived as a sign of having low self-esteem. Always stand tall
and walk tall!
10) Move slower
Move
slowly using broad movements. Make sure all of your movements are slow
and relaxed. Don't have any kind of fast, “flaming” movements or any
“jerky” movements that are often associated with insecurity.
11) Lean forward…and then lean back.
When
you talk to a woman, lean forward when the conversation is going good.
But don't stay in that position the whole time, you also want to lean
back some times to “let go of the tension”.
12) Take up room
Take
up as much room as you can when you sit, stand and walk. If you have
trouble opening up, do the following exercise. Imagine yourself as a
roughneck and think how
they move. Do the same.
13) Invade people's personal space
Don't
be afraid of moving into a woman's personal space. Keep getting closer
and closer to her. It'll show that you're not afraid.
14) Touch people
Touch women on the elbow casually when you laugh at their jokes. Don't be afraid to hug a woman
when the opportunity arises.
15) Have purpose
Have purpose with your life and know what you're going after. Raise up the social hierarchy ladder.
Acting like an alpha male in can help you have the right body language naturally.