Marius Panzarella is the creator of Dating Secrets Revealed: The Smart Dating System he is recognized as one of the leading web dating coaches and has helped over 60,000 men lead better lives and success with women. There's no question that having the right body language can project a sense of self-confidence when you're talking to women. Today I am going to teach you a few tricks on how to use “confident body language” to help you attract women.
1) Broad smile
Have a broad smile on your face. As a beginner, try to aim for what I call a “baby smile”. Smile openly and sincerely like a baby. Later on, you'll be able to tone it down to a more serious “James Bond” kind of smile. But for now, stick to the baby smile. It will help get you the kind of attention you need!
2) Relax your face muscles
Make
sure that your whole face is relaxed. (Even your smile should be
relaxed.) If you show any kind of tension on your face, women are going
to know you're nervous. Practice relaxing your facial muscles in the
mirror. Smile and tighten your cheeks, hold for a few seconds, and then
release.
Do this 10 times every day.
3) Strong eye contact
Make sure you keep strong eye contact with the person you're talking to. Looking at the ground convey shyness and submissiveness - which is what you do NOT want. It helps to try to look “past” the woman's eyes and gaze into her soul.
4) Don't break eye contact upon meeting
When you first meet a woman, don't break eye contact until she does. This will demonstrate your masculinity and your status as an alpha male.
5) Keep palms open.
Keep your palms open or only slightly closed when you're with a woman. Do not clinch them into fists. Don't stick them into your pockets or hold onto your shirt or jacket.
6) Stand with feet wider apart.
Stand with your feet wider apart than you usually do. Open up, take up more room, and be “grounded”.
7) Lift up your chest
Expose
your chest like a soldier. It is a sign of the alpha male. The alpha
male proudly shows off his chest as a symbol of dominance. The beta
male tries to cover it up because
opening up makes him feel vulnerable.
8) Slow down your breathing
Slow down your breathing. Breath EASY! Breath from your rib cages, not from your chest.
9) Shoulders up
Keep your shoulders up without tightening them. Don't hunch. Hunching is often perceived as a sign of having low self-esteem. Always stand tall and walk tall!
10) Move slower
Move slowly using broad movements. Make sure all of your movements are slow and relaxed. Don't have any kind of fast, “flaming” movements or any “jerky” movements that are often associated with insecurity.
11) Lean forward…and then lean back.
When you talk to a woman, lean forward when the conversation is going good. But don't stay in that position the whole time, you also want to lean back some times to “let go of the tension”.
12) Take up room
Take
up as much room as you can when you sit, stand and walk. If you have
trouble opening up, do the following exercise. Imagine yourself as a
roughneck and think how
they move. Do the same.
13) Invade people's personal space
Don't be afraid of moving into a woman's personal space. Keep getting closer and closer to her. It'll show that you're not afraid.
14) Touch people
Touch women on the elbow casually when you laugh at their jokes. Don't be afraid to hug a woman
when the opportunity arises.
15) Have purpose
Have purpose with your life and know what you're going after. Raise up the social hierarchy ladder.
Acting like an alpha male in can help you have the right body language naturally.