Have you ever found yourself in a good vibe or rhythm with a woman, the kind of vibe where there really is not any internal dialogue going on?

When you aren't thinking to yourself if what you are saying or doing is right or wrong you are just doing what you want to do and she is following.

If you were able to keep that vibe going for any significant amount of time you more than likely found everything easy with her and had a great time.

However, at some point you reach a moment in time where for whatever reason, where you want to go in your mind with her carries some kind of risk.

Sometimes it is going in for a kiss, asking for a phone number, or something much more.

It is at this point that you have a choice to make:

Go after what you want and get it or at least know that you can not get it yet.

Continue to NOT go after what you want and hope that she wants what you want so much that she lets you have it when you finally do go after it or pursues you herself.

No matter which you choose the vibe that you had with her is gone.

A new vibe is being created in that exact same moment as well.

If you can choose the first option no matter what you control the vibe and how long it lasts.

Those who decide on the second option leave the vibe and choosing to the woman, which more often than not will result in her ending the vibe or at the very least all romantic and sexual ones.

In the end, it is important to realize that when you have a good vibe with a woman, whatever you are thinking she is more than likely thinking as well or at the very least willing to consider.

If not, well you weren't really in the vibe in the first place.