Derek, I purchased the Seduction Science System and I have to say that
it has definitely given me more confidence in myself, which in turn has
allowed me to be much more open and, well, manly, with women. I'm a
photography student at an art school, and there are plenty of really
hot (liberal!) girls who go to school with me.
There's this girl named Beatrice who I know. Thing is, she has posed
nude for me for photographs. In fact, she just last week came over - to
my house! - because the photo studio was booked that day. She was naked
in my room, for Christ sake.
I was using only
candlelight, and I even had Enigma playing on the speakers. In ANY
other circumstance it would have been hot and sexy. And it was, for me.
I was planning on asking her to MODEL for me again, and do it again at
my house. I would totally like to seduce this girl.
Derek, what would you recommend I do? Any advice you could give me would be totally and greatly appreciated. Thanks!!
Tom
Tom, the only reason you didn't have this girl with her back to the bed
and her legs spread eagle-style in the air is because you left out one
small but critical step in the seduction process.
In
fact, you've inadvertently stumbled upon a seduction ROUTINE that I
like to use. It's the Sexy Photo Posing routine and it's great for
turning a friend into a lover or getting your date stripped and naked.
ANY guy can do this routine - all you need is a digital camera.
When
you're with a girl, whip it out from your pocket. your digital camera
that is! What you're about to do is some playful role-playing whereas
you play the photographer and she plays the model.
First,
tell the girl you want to get your picture with you and her together.
Put your arm around her, hold the camera out in front of you with your
arm extended and take a picture of the two of you. Show her the photo
on the LCD screen - a close up of both of your faces.
Tease her that it's a funny-looking photo of her. "Oh my god. no, this no good. your face is REALLY big. No, that's no good."
Tell
her that you want to get a sexier photo of her this time. This time,
take a snapshot of just her. Most likely she'll also want to redeem
herself from the previous photo, which you playfully made fun of. But
be casual and playful to head off any resistance.
Look
at that second, "sexier" photo on the LCD screen, and say like "nahh.."
in a disapproving way. Tell her to pose something more sexy.
At this point, she'll try to win your approval by posing a little
bit sexier. Tell her like a photographer, "Marvelous! Marvelous!
Stunning!" while you snap off a few shots.
Back
off and look at her with the pondering eye of an artist. You want to
convey through your body language that you're thinking of how to pose
and position her. put your fist to your chin for a moment like a deep
thinker.
Go up to her and USE YOUR HANDS to place her into position. Hold
your thumbs and forefingers up to make a square box with your fingers,
like an artist framing a picture. Tell her to "Stand like this" and to
"Put your legs like that."
MOVE her into
position now, TOUCH her. Move all of her limbs and hips and into place.
Remember, you are the artist and you are turning her into a work of
art.
When you have her in a position you
like, say "Ah-hah! Perfect!" Then snap off some more shots with her in
the pose that YOU directed. Tell her, "Oh yes, YES. you're so sexy.
yes, like that. perfect! Wow that's sexy, darling. Marvelous!"
Say
all this in a playful, detached way in the "character" of a gayish or
colorful photographer. That way it's not technically the "real you"
telling her she's sexy, but the role you're playing that's telling her
she's sexy. And be sure to keep your "professional distance" as you
basically grope her right on the spot.
By
getting your hands on her, TOUCHING HER, moving her into various
positions, by taking the LEAD and COMMANDING HER and by MAKING HER
BEAUITFUL, she will become hot for you, if not downright wet right
there and then.
Ever been to a gym and watch
a gym instructor put his hands all over the girl unnecessarily as he
shows her how to use the exercise machines - and how her body is put
into a sexually-charged overdrive as he does it? What you'll be doing
with the Sexy Photo Posing routine is quite similar - except with a
little artistic flair.
If you're with a group
of girls, you can do the Sexy Photo Posing routine to any one of them
while the others watch. Just watch how it makes ALL of the other girls
jealous and you become Mr. Popular on the spot.
If you're out in public with the girl you want to seduce, that may be as far as you can bring the routine.
However, if you're alone with her in say, a bedroom, the routine doesn't have to end there.
Keep telling her how sexy she is as you pose her.
Pass
your hands over her breasts as you move her. Don't grab her breasts as
that will trigger an automatic defense response from her. Simply brush
over them with your palms in passing.
Move her legs into position by pressing on the inside of her thighs, another hot spot.
Notice how her breathing and response systems react. You can usually
tell at this point if she's getting at least a bit horny. If she's
getting hot, simply say, "Would you like to kiss me now." Don't ask it,
just say it. If she doesn't respond or says anything but "No", then
kiss her.
If she's still into the casual,
playful role-playing mode then continue to be playful. It's up to you
to read her physiological signs and act accordingly.
Keep in mind, the Sexy Photo Posing routine progresses as a series
of ESCALATING steps. You start out innocently enough - as just taking a
goofy photo of her - and progress to posing, to posing with your
direction, to touching, to petting and kissing, and finally to sex
(assuming you have her in a private location).
If
at any point she resists, simply back off a little - it means you're
going too fast for her. Back off, and then continue the same path of
escalation as before.
In the case of Tom, he
failed to make an easy seduction off a NAKED girl in his room WHO
ALREADY LIKED HIM because he didn't physically take charge and touch
her into place.
Get it?
As
for cameras, forget about film-based cameras, because they don't have a
LCD screen, which is an important component of the routine. With a
digital you don't have to pay for film either and can simply delete the
pictures from memory free of charge after you're done the routine.
At
least for seduction purposes, you don't need a fancy digital camera -
but you do need a small one. Look for one that's about the size of a
deck of cards and can fit in your back pocket comfortably. That way you
can jump right into the routine no matter where you are because you
keep the camera discreetly in your pocket.
Another great routine that involves touching and which is even more versatile is palm reading.
Although
there are a few palm reading books out there, they're full of
extraneous information that's not necessary for seduction. And they
don't show you how to spin off to other topics and how to escalate from
the palm reading.
That's why I wrote the book Palm Reading for Seduction so that you
can learn what you need to know right away. Check it out... it's
included FREE with the purchase of the Seduction Science System.
Use
both routines though - palm reading to first physically "prep" her and
have her get use to your touch - and the Sexy Photo Posing routine to
further escalate the interaction and attraction to intimate touching,
kissing, or sex.
Consider it the one-two killer punch.
Now get out there and make it happen!