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Tyler Durden
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Tyler Durden is one of the best known seduction gurus in the community. Founder of Real Social Dynamics, he is a main character in the New York Times bestseller, "The Game" by Neil Strauss and continues to lead the community as a top guru.
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Plant and Stare
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My favourite opener lately is to just walk up to girls and just stop. Like
plant myself in front of them. I give them kind of a boyish playful smiling face like I'm about to do
something cocky or maybe I thought of something funny I'm about to say, and they
start giggling. (key is to stop abruptly, and make the fun face, so they
giggle).
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Stealing Horny Chicks
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The girl hits full buying temperature. Maybe you did it. Maybe
another natural player did it. Maybe her boyfriend pissed her off and
de-validated her. Maybe she's on vacation, and she decides she wants
it. Whatever the way, she's decided she wants sex TONIGHT, and somebody
is going to get it. You see this in Leicester Square in London England. The girls get
hit on all night. The guys hitting on them are getting blown out left
and right. But yet, at the same time, their buying temperature is
escalating and escalating.
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PVC Devil
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"Oh, you're getting fiesty, huh? You know what I would do with you? I would
dress you up.... in a red.. PVC... *devil* outfit.. You'd have little horns like
this... and a tail... bitch boots, and..... a pitch fork. Now your friend here..
I'd dress her up in a similar angel outfit.. with wings.. and a fur halo.. and
I'd roll with you guys on each arm down the street.. Every girl would be jealous
of you.. And whenever I'd have to make a decision.. I'd let each of you fight
over which decision is the most fun.. and whatever one would be the most fun..
we'd do that." (the periods are to show the pacing, because they roll over
laughing in between every pause)
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Tension Test
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"I also follow that up with the "Tension Test" IVD, which is just me doing
the massage maneuvre (another of my most useful kino tricks, that I posted about
alot last month, where I run my fingers up her back and massage her down). Then
I tell her things about her based on how she reacted to the move, but its not
structured, and I just bullshit it."
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David Bowie
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"Guys, do girls think that David Bowie is hot?" They'll talk about it, or some will remember he's the guy from Willow. Then if you can't transition, you can always say "I was reading Maxim over in
the 7/11 (convenience store), and this smoking hot model was talking all this
shit about how she *loved* David Bowie..", and then build off of that (although
I only did this once, and normally use my stock C&F)
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Best Friends (Expanded)
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"You guys are best friends aren't you. You have exactly the same posture. And
you have exactly the same facial expressions. And the big thing, and I don't
know if all girls do this or what, but ever time you go to talk, or I'm talking
to you, or you're about to do something, you guys keep looking at each other
first".
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Blonde Hair
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Opened EVERY time in Toronto, and even huge AFCs on ASF have emailed me saying
that its opened 100% of the time. I don't know of an opener that I've seen open
more than this, so far.
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AMOG FR
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Out-alpha'ing guys is a fast way to convey value. It's like
stereotypical male fantasy of wishing that they could slay the dragon
or save a girl from harm. Why is that? It's because they may have balls
of steel, but they don't know how to CONVEY it fast. This sort of thing
helps you to do that. Also, it's so important to have this stuff down
in clubs, because there are always guys trying to lower your status to
elevate theirs. So being savvy of the subcommunication that's going on
in between alpha guys is really key in social gatherings.
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Social Vibing
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To me, this is a very important post. Social Intelligence. Having struggled so hard to learn it, I have so
much to say on this topic. In this post I'd like to specifically
discuss social vibing and insecurity (a very focused, but important
peice of the puzzle). There are many subcommunications that are being telegraphed at all times in any interaction. Both verbal and non-verbal. Social interactions have features and customs that I suppose are designed to make them pleasant. As social animals, we have the attribute of actually enjoying socializing just for the sake of socializing. We socially VIBE.
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Trust Test
Then TELL her if she passed or failed, and then she'll say "No No No, I
DO trust you!" and then she'll always be RESPONSIVE to kino-tests from then
on (notice that these are FUNDAMENTAL IOI kino-tests, but I'm just working
them into a routine.. btw, for guys who aren't using those kino IOI tests,
where the fuck have you been?? They're one of the most important parts of
game)
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