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Derek Vitalio
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Derek Vitalio is one of the leading authorities on How to Attract and Seduce beautiful women. His book, "Seduction Science," is highly recommended.
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Articles by this Author
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The Sexy Picture Posing Routine
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Derek, I purchased the Seduction Science System and I have to say that
it has definitely given me more confidence in myself, which in turn has
allowed me to be much more open and, well, manly, with women. I'm a
photography student at an art school, and there are plenty of really
hot (liberal!) girls who go to school with me.
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Having One Girlfriend or Sleeping With Many Women?
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Most likely you have some sort of goals in your life. Goals
allow you to consciously prioritize your time and decide what do with
it. Since there's only so many days in your life, goals allow you to
focus in on what you desire most without getting sidetracked. For example, if you have a clearly defined goal to become a physical trainer, you won't waste your time going to law school. Likewise,
if you have a clearly defined goal to become a stand-up comedian,
you'll avoid spending your days learning computer programming.
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What to Do When a Woman Tests You
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As you get better at talking to women, you’ll discover they set up
hurdles to see how you handle them. Learn the right way, and not only
will you be closer to where you want to be – you’ll become more
attractive in the process. Roadblocks. We’re
going to talk about some roadblocks now. You may have the attitude and
the moves – but there are always going to be twists thrown at you along
the way.
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Relaxed Playfulness - The Master Key of Attraction
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Alright, so now you are mad confident, you walk the walk, you talk
the talk (a bit), and you are ready to be a lady killer, right? Not so fast bud. Relaxed
confidence will get you far – farther than anything else I'm going to
teach you – but if you want to REALLY make it work, you need to refine
it. Think of hunting. Going out exuding relaxed
confidence is like spraying the field with buck shot. Sure, you'll hit
a lot of targets – it sure beats a slingshot – and you might even bring
some down, but it's not the most effective method.
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Mastering the Whole Club Thing
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For most guys, meeting girls at clubs is difficult for them. So they prefer to meet girls at bookstores, malls, coffee shops, and other daytime "low pressure" venues. But meeting girls at clubs can actually be far EASIER than at daytime venues. I
know that can sound counterintuitive. After all, at a club you have to
deal with loud music that can be difficult to talk over, distracting
lights, competition from other guys, and girls with their "shields" up. Worse still, if you go alone you don't know anyone else while it looks like everyone else is having fun.
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Projecting Sexual States and Going Under Her Radar
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Guys always ask me for the best pick-up lines, the fanciest
language patterns, the latest verbal tricks, and the most interesting
gimmicks that seduce women. These tools all work of course. Use them. But guys who only concentrate on learning verbal language techniques are missing a CRITICAL element of the seduction. And because of this missing element, they hardly EVER get laid. Pick-up
lines, language patterns, verbal tricks and gimmicks are NOT enough to
get laid in general. They WILL get smiles and eye contact, but smiles
and eye contact are far removed from a girl jumping in bed with you.
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Appearance and Body Language
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You know it's not that important - but it still counts for something.
Let's take a moment to talk about what you should do to make yourself
look good. A lot of people would think you'd talk about appearance first off -
after all, it's the first thing you see, your first impression, first
everything starts at the skin. I hope you're not one of them anymore. As
you probably remember, much more important (and equally instantaneous)
is body language. If you're ugly as sin's deformed sister you can still
overcome that with the way you carry yourself.
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The Three Sexual Keys
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Most men do two. but not all three of the keys that lead to constantly
fresh and fulfilling sex. Not because they can't do any of them, but
because the three key aspects aren't linked firmly enough. Once you can
successfully balance play, sex, and cuddling, you'll be able to show
your lover something new every time.
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Overcoming Last Minute Resistance to Your Advances
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Okay, you're sitting with girl on your bed. She's making out with your tongue, playing field hockey with your tonsils. You kiss her neck while you pass your palm over her breasts through her shirt and with the other hand stroke her thigh. You slip one of your hands down her jeans and start massaging her lips with your fingers. Then she speaks those pesky words you prayed you wouldn't hear. "No. stop. we shouldn't be doing this." she says. You feel that disappointing feeling of frustration. So close, and yet what do you do?
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Breaking Through Final Resistance
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It's pretty rare that a girl who liked you enough to isolate herself with you will not have sex. Still,
sometimes a woman will put up some final resistance at the last moment
when she realizes that if she doesn't stop herself immediately, sex
will be inevitable. Most of the time, if the
girl is putting up token verbal resistance like "This is moving too
fast," simply ignoring her and carrying forward or simply talking sexy
with her in agreement will put to rest her objections. Her voice may
say one thing, but her body says another and she proceeds to have sex
with you.
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