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Elena Solomon
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Elena Solomon is a dating coach. Her latest book " 12 Simple Rules " became the #1 'Love & Romance' bestseller in just ONE WEEK after its release. It shows you EXACTLY how you can utilize the natural laws of attraction and its built-in sexual strategies to win in the game of love.
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There is a new type of dating that grows from inside the old, "dating game" mode - evolved dating. What is 'evolved dating'? It is dating for people who KNOW WHAT THEY ARE DOING. In other words, people who are aware of the dynamics of men-women relationships, body language, effective communication, who have their life together and who understand that there is more to dating than pick-up lines. Those people DON'T need the usual dating games, playing hard-to-get etc, etc. Like high-level sportsmen, they can spot each other in an instant.
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What is body language?
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These days everybody talks about body language - performance experts, life coaches, gossip columnists and dating gurus. But do you know what body language is? The dictionary gives this definition to 'body language': "The gestures,
postures, and facial expressions by which a person manifests various
physical, mental, or emotional states and communicates nonverbally with
others." I have been interested in body language for years, and after reading a
few dozens of books, all you need to know can be summarized in 4 simple
points:
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Sexual Strategies
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If you've ever been frustrated with the opposite gender, I feel for
you. I've been there, too. In fact, for nearly two decades of my life I
was completely clueless on what was going on between men and women -
with disastrous results. Then I decided I'd had enough and I wanted to learn what the other
gender was REALLY looking for and HOW one could master that. In short,
I wanted to know what makes men and women tick.
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How To Ruin Your Online Dating Success
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These days you seldom meet a single person who never tried online dating - unless they aren't Internet users. Since you are reading this, I assume you ARE online - so this information can be crucial for your online dating success. Most people placing personal ads on Internet dating sites seem to do
everything to RUIN any of their chances for success. Are you one of
them?
Here is how to ruin your online dating campaign:
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Why Online Dating Services Beat Traditional Personals Every Time
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Personal ads are hundreds of years old. There were already personal ads in newspapers at the beginning of 19th century. Now, with the invention of Internet, you can place your personal ad in
front of hundreds of thousands of available singles. In terms of
reaching the widest audience for your personal ad, nothing can compare
with online dating services. Should you even bother with placing a personal ad in newspapers those days? I have been placing personal ads in newspapers, and I have been placing
personal ads online, and my experience is that online dating services
beat traditional personals every time.
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Online Dating SCAMS
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Before you even think about online dating, you must know about dating scams. This is serious: if you get too deeply involved, a dating scam can
significantly hurt not only your heart, but your finances, too. Make sure you know how to protect yourself from fraud when using dating sites! Internet personals, online introduction agencies and matchmaking sites
allow anyone to join for free, and they usually do not screen their
members. It means you never know who is behind this pretty photo: a
real beautiful woman or a con artist who downloaded a photo of an
unknown model from the Internet.
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Why You MUST Have a Photo in Your Internet Personals Ad
Any online dating site will tell you that uploading your photo can increase your chances tenfold. Why should you have a photo in your personal ad online? Here are top 4 reasons:
1. You get more responses to your ad
2. People are more likely to answer your messages
3. You appear more credible
4. You can influence people's opinion about you
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Free Dating Sites vs. Paid Dating Sites
I have used and worked for several dating sites, both free and paid.
I know Internet personals from A to Z. And I came to realize that free dating sites were awfully expensive. Want to know why? First, free dating sites attract all types of rubbish: Nigerian
scammers, Russian "mail order brides", and all types of unstable and
wicked people that were banned from quality services. Those people have
too much time on their hands (or it is their full-time Internet rip-off
occupation) and this is why they don't mind to hang there.
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How To Start A Conversation With An Attractive Stranger
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For many people, starting a conversation with a stranger is an
intimidating task. But for you, after reading this article, it will be
a breeze. The best beginning for the conversation is, "Hi". (I am sure you can master that!) The second step is to introduce yourself, "Hi, I am Jim." (Not too tricky, is it?) Then it goes depending on circumstances. The three most popular and foolproof conversation-starters are:
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What Women Want
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A while ago, a guy wrote to me saying that if he knew what women wanted, he would write a book and retire rich. What women want was a secret to a man for a long, LONG time. Mel Gibson and his famous movie "What Women Want" haven't quite
answered this question. In fact, this is exactly the answer to the
question in his own words: "After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the
surface of what women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere
between conversation and chocolate." I don't know about you but this answer doesn't quite cut it for me. If
I were a guy, I would need something more specific to succeed with
women!
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